So, your Ivy League-educated son is lacking motivation and it’s mortifying, huh? Well, isn’t that just peachy. I mean, why not add one more thing to your list of things to worry about, right?

But let’s get real here. It seems like you’re more worried about what your friends think than your own son. Oh, and can we talk about the whole “loving kids for what they do vs. who they are” thing? Because let’s face it, that’s just messed up.

And don’t even get me started on your “well-meaning” friends. I mean, are they really well-meaning or are they just a group of envious haters? Either way, their opinions don’t matter one bit.

Now, let’s address the real issue at hand. Your son needs help, and not the kind of help that you can provide. I’m talking about therapy, folks. I know, I know, it can be hard to find a good therapist these days, but trust me, it’s worth the effort.

And while we’re at it, let’s give your son a break, shall we? It’s a tough time to be a young adult these days, and the job market isn’t exactly booming. So, instead of berating him for his lack of ambition, try showing him some sympathy and support.

Depression and “lack of ambition” often go hand in hand, so instead of being ashamed, try to be more understanding. And when it comes to your friends, who needs ’em? If they can’t be compassionate during a tough time, they’re not worth your time.

So, let your son figure things out on his own terms. After all, there’s no shame in taking a little extra time to find your way in life. And don’t worry, he’ll get there eventually.

Serious News: washingtonpost